Sex. It can be amazing, exciting, orgasmic, fun, crazy,energetic or any number of adjectives you wanna use to describe it. Often times though it is the effort put into the foreplay and setting the right mood that makes it all of those things. As a young women recently single and dating I have noticed that the effort and time put into pleasing a women is severely lacking among young men. Most are either clueless or just don't care either way taking the time to seduce a women can definitely work in your favor and I'm going to explain why and how to do this right.
Foreplay. In Order to truly seduce you must become a master of touching, teasing and pleasing a women. Don't be afraid to ask her what she likes since every women is different what drove the last one crazy may do nothing for the next. Set the mood (No RAP MUSIC PLEASE) romance is apart of foreplay. Romantic dinner,candle lights,music and good conversation is the start of the seduction.You must take your time and focus on her pleasure because if you do it makes her want to please you so that much more.
Anticipation. What Men don't realize is Women get offered penis on a daily basis so you offering yours isn't much different. You have to be patient and make her want you! if you take your time (as I mentioned earlier) slowing build up her desire and don't offer yourself to her upfront. The anticipation will make her curious and want you that much more. Women always want what they cant have so if your not offering your self to her in a hurry it will make her desire you. You also have to build anticipation during you foreplay as well. don't just dive in (literally) take your time to kiss her all over, touch her all over not just "those" specific areas. The places you don't touch her is where she will want you too!
Patience. This one is very important because this is where Men seem to mess up most. In order to truly seduce you HAVE to be patient all these steps take time in order to be done right. You have to be able to withhold you wants (briefly) in order to satisfy her need. if your patient and take your time and do it right it can be amazing.
Sex is supposed to be fun, Being creative and being willing to try new things is key. Try new positions or a sex toy you never know what you may enjoy until you try it! Sex doesn't always have to include extensive foreplay but at least make sure the oven is warm before sticking something in! Foreplay, Anticipation, Patience and Creativity is Key to Seduction and can lead to some very happy women. Have Fun and Most importantly be safe!
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Since the dawn of time people have craved the companionship of another, whether it be a romantic relationship or a friendship. We as people just yearn for someone to share our thoughts/ideas and secrets with.
Most people have friends some are lucky enough to have a best friend, majority of the time its a person of the same sex. But what happens when male and females try to have this type of relationship? Is it possible for men and women to have a non-sexual friendship?
Its true that not everyone who has a male or female friend HAS to want to cross the line of friendship but it can become complex. Being in close quarters with someone you find attractive, there personality appeals to you, and maybe a few drinks get in your system and the lines of friendship and something more become blurred..
I think the confusion stems from a woman's desire to want to be close to a man and for a man's desire to want to be intimate with a woman. Let's be honest sometimes that feeling of closeness and caring for each other can easily become lust. You enjoy there company, phone calls text messages and outings can make it feel more like a relationship than a friendship.
So can men and women just be friends? Of course! Does it work? Yes! is it hard? Very!, but if we can fly with out wings anything is possible.
Most people have friends some are lucky enough to have a best friend, majority of the time its a person of the same sex. But what happens when male and females try to have this type of relationship? Is it possible for men and women to have a non-sexual friendship?
Its true that not everyone who has a male or female friend HAS to want to cross the line of friendship but it can become complex. Being in close quarters with someone you find attractive, there personality appeals to you, and maybe a few drinks get in your system and the lines of friendship and something more become blurred..
I think the confusion stems from a woman's desire to want to be close to a man and for a man's desire to want to be intimate with a woman. Let's be honest sometimes that feeling of closeness and caring for each other can easily become lust. You enjoy there company, phone calls text messages and outings can make it feel more like a relationship than a friendship.
So can men and women just be friends? Of course! Does it work? Yes! is it hard? Very!, but if we can fly with out wings anything is possible.
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
No String Attached?
I recently saw a preview for a movie called "No Strings Attached"
About friends who enter a casual sexual relationship and then of
Course fall in love. Life isn't like a movie though so what happens
When real people enter these types of situations can it work?
Normally the basis for these relationships is for two consenting
Adults to have a non committed, no strings attached (protected) sex
. The problem is MOST times that one or both parties involved want
More than just an orgasm and some cab fare.
As women we have evolved and become recognized
As sexual beings but have we evolved enough to go
Against our make up and have casual sex with out
Catching feelings? We normally crave monogamy and
Stabilty which these types of relationships do not
Provide. So have we really evolved or are we just
Pretending?
In this day and age when women are JUST as busy
As men. With a social life, work, school etc. Is
A relationship just another thing on our to do list
Have we become to busy for a relationship or have we
Just become to lazy to put in the effort it take to
Work?
Generally this idea can work two adults who
Need to satisfy there argue for sex giving each
Other a helping hand. I always say to each there
Own, the only way you can find out if it will work
For you is to try it. Just ask your self this: If
Nothing else comes from this but (hopefully!) enjoyable
Sex would you be satisfied? If the answer is yes then
You my friend are ready.
About friends who enter a casual sexual relationship and then of
Course fall in love. Life isn't like a movie though so what happens
When real people enter these types of situations can it work?
Normally the basis for these relationships is for two consenting
Adults to have a non committed, no strings attached (protected) sex
. The problem is MOST times that one or both parties involved want
More than just an orgasm and some cab fare.
As women we have evolved and become recognized
As sexual beings but have we evolved enough to go
Against our make up and have casual sex with out
Catching feelings? We normally crave monogamy and
Stabilty which these types of relationships do not
Provide. So have we really evolved or are we just
Pretending?
In this day and age when women are JUST as busy
As men. With a social life, work, school etc. Is
A relationship just another thing on our to do list
Have we become to busy for a relationship or have we
Just become to lazy to put in the effort it take to
Work?
Generally this idea can work two adults who
Need to satisfy there argue for sex giving each
Other a helping hand. I always say to each there
Own, the only way you can find out if it will work
For you is to try it. Just ask your self this: If
Nothing else comes from this but (hopefully!) enjoyable
Sex would you be satisfied? If the answer is yes then
You my friend are ready.
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Modern Women or Glorified whore?
In a world where instant gratification
is not only expected but demanded,
From Music Downloads to Movies on demand.
Our generation expects everything fast and
easy. Have women now applied this ideal to
sex?
With the large increase of sexual transmitte
d diseases, and women becoming famous for ha
ving sex with celebs (I.e. Katt Stacks).I'm
m left to wonder is women who wait extinct?
Or is it because men have realized if you
won't fuck on the first date there is 5 more
girls who will? There was a time when
fucking someone you barely know was frowned
upon and gave you a bad reputation, now
its ok even expected. Is this New Trend a
sign of an evolution of our generation or
the demise? We might now be entering a
time where multiple sex partners and
sexual promiscuity is expected from men
AND women.
Now as a Women I'm all
for promoting women being comfortable with
there sexuality, not fearing being labeled
a whore because of what they do behind
closed doors. At what point does it go
from being grown and doing "Adult" things
to Being a down right ho? At what point does
your sexual indiscretions go from making you
a modern women or a Whore?
is not only expected but demanded,
From Music Downloads to Movies on demand.
Our generation expects everything fast and
easy. Have women now applied this ideal to
sex?
With the large increase of sexual transmitte
d diseases, and women becoming famous for ha
ving sex with celebs (I.e. Katt Stacks).I'm
m left to wonder is women who wait extinct?
Or is it because men have realized if you
won't fuck on the first date there is 5 more
girls who will? There was a time when
fucking someone you barely know was frowned
upon and gave you a bad reputation, now
its ok even expected. Is this New Trend a
sign of an evolution of our generation or
the demise? We might now be entering a
time where multiple sex partners and
sexual promiscuity is expected from men
AND women.
Now as a Women I'm all
for promoting women being comfortable with
there sexuality, not fearing being labeled
a whore because of what they do behind
closed doors. At what point does it go
from being grown and doing "Adult" things
to Being a down right ho? At what point does
your sexual indiscretions go from making you
a modern women or a Whore?
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