Tuesday, February 15, 2011

The Forgotten Art of Seduction

                                      Sex. It can be amazing, exciting, orgasmic, fun, crazy,energetic or any number of adjectives you wanna use to describe it. Often times though it is the effort put into the foreplay and setting the right mood that makes it all of those things. As a young women recently single and dating I have noticed that the effort and time put into pleasing a women is severely lacking among young men. Most are either clueless or just don't care either way taking the time to seduce a women can definitely work in your favor and I'm going to explain why and how to do this right.

                                          Foreplay. In Order to truly seduce you must become a master of touching, teasing and pleasing a women. Don't be afraid to ask her what she likes since every women is different what drove the last one crazy may do nothing for the next. Set the mood (No RAP MUSIC PLEASE) romance is apart of foreplay. Romantic dinner,candle lights,music and good conversation is the start of the seduction.You must take your time and focus on her pleasure because if you do it makes her want to please you so that much more.

                              Anticipation. What Men don't realize is Women get offered penis on a daily basis so you offering yours isn't much different. You have to be patient and make her want you! if you take your time (as I mentioned earlier) slowing build up her desire and don't offer yourself to her upfront. The anticipation will make her curious and want you that much more. Women always want what they cant have so if your not offering your self to her in a hurry it will make her desire you. You also have to build anticipation during you foreplay as well. don't just dive in (literally) take your time to kiss her all over, touch her all over not just   "those" specific areas. The places you don't touch her is where she will want you too!


                                  Patience. This one is very important because this is where Men seem to mess up most. In order to truly seduce you HAVE to be patient all these steps take time in order to be done right. You have to be able to withhold you wants (briefly) in order to satisfy her need. if your patient and take your time and do it right it can be amazing.

                                     Sex is supposed to be fun, Being creative and being willing to try new things is key. Try new positions or a sex toy you never know what you may enjoy until you try it! Sex doesn't always have to include extensive foreplay but at least make sure the oven is warm before sticking something in! Foreplay, Anticipation, Patience and Creativity is Key to Seduction and can lead to some very happy women. Have Fun and Most importantly be safe!