Dating. You meet someone, you find the attractive you exchange contact info. People aren't always clear as to what to do next. sure you talk/text get to know each other but most people don't know how to date properly. Yes there is a proper way to date. People always either jump into a relationship or into bed, both hardly ever work out. if you take your time to date get to know each other this may lead to a happy relationship. let me give you some rules to get you started.
1.Be honest. Everyone has intentions with someone from the start. whether you just want sex, to date and see where it goes or a serious relationship. The other party should know up front and be able to decide if they want to carry on with you.
2. Be open minded. Everyone has preferences but don't be afraid to date someone out of your comfort zone,sometime the person you rule out because there not tall enough may be the one who got away.
3. Have realistic expectations. Requiring to date someone with a good job, car, house, no kids and you live at home car/job less with 3 kids doesn't add up. Nothing wrong with having standard but making sure there reachable and that you also have something to bring to the table besides an empty stomach.
4.Communicate. As Human beings we aren't mind readers be honest with the person your dating. If they do something you don't like don't be afraid to open your mouth and speak. If you don't like something their doing please say so. No one will understand what you expect from them if you don't say it.
5. Don't bring Baggage. If your not over your past relationship DO NOT DATE, Bringing old drama into a new situation is a sure fire way to set your self up for failure. Contrary to popular beliefs moving on isn't the way to get over a past relationship. Give yourself time to heal before you pursue something with someone else.
6. Be Patient. Even if your looking for a potential serious relationship, still take your time to get to know a person before you make them your S/O. Everyone may seem ideal in the beginning but waiting until that initial honeymoon phase is over can save you some heartache in the long run.
7. Don't let sex complicate things. Of course you start to like someone, there will be sexually chemistry and it will happen but sex does not equal a relationship or commitment.Sex is purely for pleasure, intimacy and Baby making.
Dating is for the purpose of meeting someone who has the potential of being someone you can BE with, Its also supposed to be as Fun and Drama free as possible. All in All go out their Date, mingle and Have Fun.
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