Women. Were beautiful and majestic creatures we birth children, work, go to school, were nurturing, caring and all around amazing. let's face it we are human beings and we are not without faults. We Sometimes care to much, can't let go, Hold on to bad relationships and mess up good ones.
Women being nurturing can sometimes hurt us were so hell bent on "nursing" a man we don't realize we're neglecting ourselves, Being in a relationship does not mean losing apart of yourself. Make sure that, the man is just as willing to take care of you as you are him. Relationships are about being partners and I think sometimes that we forget a partnership takes more than one party to work efficiently. Yes we all ideally want a relationship, but being in a bad relationship is just as bad as being single. You emotionally drain yourself til the point of not being able to be able offer yourself fully to the next man, because you wasted so much of yourself on Mr. Wrong.
How can you stop falling for Mr. Wrong? How can you stop having bad relationship after bad relationship? The answer is simple really, Listen to your gut instinct. I'm not talking about women's intuition because we all know that can sometimes fail us. No, I'm talking about listening to that little feeling you get that tells you something is off proceed with caution. A lot of times that caution sign should be a STOP sign you KNOW something is off but being a woman you feel the need to see it through, thinking maybe your missing out on a good thing. stop "Following" through on things that are destined to fail, because before you know it you wake up years have passed and you've wasted your time on the wrong man because your scared to let go.
Listening to your instincts is something we all need to do more often. Its the part of us that tells us when there is danger around us, don't go down that block, don't get on that train. There is something not right about this situation. We often head to these signs in our daily lives but are scared to follow it when it comes to love. Most times as females we tend to let our emotions over power our logic, and honestly we really can't help it because we are wired this way. Now I'm not suggesting you stop listening to your heart just make sure your giving your mind its fair share in the spotlight as well, because by doing this you may find out you will be successful in life AND Love.
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